What's a major deal breaker/turn off in the opposite sex?

Alfisti · 02-22-2021, 01:38 PM

I dunno, I am no feminist but I think it is very tough to be a woman with genuinely small breasts, say a true A cup, I am not judging if they feel they want a little more.

It's hard to walk in other people's shoes in this situation.

Alpine300zhp · 02-22-2021, 01:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Sara504

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Well then I guess you don’t deserve to know, or don’t care what he has to say.

Both

Though I prefer not to receive DMs. Keeping it full is the best way to ensure I’m not bothered with it. Others know how to contact me otherwise.

Well. All I can say is Where have you been? It seems you haven't posted in 3 years.....

Joekerr · 02-22-2021, 01:41 PM

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Originally Posted by dinonz

Being fussy/picky at inappropriate times.

I have a friend staying because of the Texas Snowpocalypse, and she's as fussy as hell DURING a crisis. She knew when she came here (because of no water) that I had limited choice of food (chili or soup basically). "I don't feel like that - got any pizza?". No. "See if you can order one in". No. I managed to make some chili which wasn't bad, but the next day "I've had that recently - got any snacks?". No. "Chips?". No. "Garlic bread?". No. What part of "I have chili and soup" was difficult to understand, and in a crisis situation STOP BEING FUSSY!

I managed to get some Pillsbury pizza dough, and we made pizza - it wasn't bad. The next day I managed to buy some pizza from HEB too as backup. Now she only wants to eat the HEB one because the other dough is too sweet for her taste, so she thinks I should go shopping again to get more of that one despite having dough to make pizza in the fridge.

I just can't wait for her to go home.

Doesn't sound like a very good friend? Is she in other respects? If not, why not use this as an opportunity to sever the friendship? Her actions suggest she is very self absorbed.

Sara · 02-22-2021, 01:43 PM

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Originally Posted by dinonz

Being fussy/picky at inappropriate times.

I have a friend staying because of the Texas Snowpocalypse, and she's as fussy as hell DURING a crisis. She knew when she came here (because of no water) that I had limited choice of food (chili or soup basically). "I don't feel like that - got any pizza?". No. "See if you can order one in". No. I managed to make some chili which wasn't bad, but the next day "I've had that recently - got any snacks?". No. "Chips?". No. "Garlic bread?". No. What part of "I have chili and soup" was difficult to understand, and in a crisis situation STOP BEING FUSSY!

I managed to get some Pillsbury pizza dough, and we made pizza - it wasn't bad. The next day I managed to buy some pizza from HEB too as backup. Now she only wants to eat the HEB one because the other dough is too sweet for her taste, so she thinks I should go shopping again to get more of that one despite having dough to make pizza in the fridge.

I just can't wait for her to go home.

Worse than an in-law....

Littlebear · 02-22-2021, 01:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Joekerr

Doesn't sound like a very good friend? Is she in other respects? If not, why not use this as an opportunity to sever the friendship? Her actions suggest she is very self absorbed.

But did you get your d**k wet?

ASAP · 02-22-2021, 01:46 PM

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Originally Posted by NorCalAthlete

Re: aftermarket boobs - the only thing I really care about is if the nipples work. Can I play with them and get you going still? Great, then don't care if they're fake or not.

I've dated some with and some without and it appears to be a mixed bag - sometimes they get even more sensitive and it's like a light switch, other times they lose sensitivity and can't get off from it much anymore.

I can deal with the scars (heck I've got some scars I'm self conscious about) and I can deal with how they look in various positions, I just want her to be able to enjoy herself still.

lol that 1st paragraph...

what if the nips are like wide and long screws as opposed to m&m's...?

or 40 YO virgin - what if the boobs are like bags of sand?

dinonz · 02-22-2021, 01:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Joekerr

Doesn't sound like a very good friend? Is she in other respects? If not, why not use this as an opportunity to sever the friendship? Her actions suggest she is very self absorbed.

She's not the greatest of friends, but it's complicated - we go way back, and I know a lot of her family.

dinonz · 02-22-2021, 01:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Sara504

Worse than an in-law....

Wouldn't know - don't have any

dinonz · 02-22-2021, 01:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Littlebear

But did you get your d**k wet?

Nope - not going there.

cmyx6go · 02-22-2021, 02:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Alpine300zhp

Well. All I can say is Where have you been? It seems you haven't posted in 3 years.....

What's up Alpine? I'm assuming you're talking to Sara but I figured I'd say hi.

I see we have the same rides, I'm in a '19 X6M too. Trying to decide what's next. Lease is up in October. I hope all is well.

Now back to your regular scheduled programming

NorCalAthlete · 02-22-2021, 02:04 PM

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Originally Posted by ASAP

lol that 1st paragraph...

what if the nips are like wide and long screws as opposed to m&m's...?

or 40 YO virgin - what if the boobs are like bags of sand?

I'd ask who the doctor was and refer her to a lawyer friend for a slam dunk malpractice case

Glad I could make some people choke and laugh on a Monday morning, starting off the week right!

unluky · 02-22-2021, 04:45 PM

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Originally Posted by NorCalAthlete

Re: aftermarket boobs - the only thing I really care about is if the nipples work. Can I play with them and get you going still? Great, then don't care if they're fake or not.

I've dated some with and some without and it appears to be a mixed bag - sometimes they get even more sensitive and it's like a light switch, other times they lose sensitivity and can't get off from it much anymore.

I can deal with the scars (heck I've got some scars I'm self conscious about) and I can deal with how they look in various positions, I just want her to be able to enjoy herself still.

Well said. My GF is small breasted, but I've dated them all - I don't care - but a pair that turn the right dials are great. Some seem to care less and some seem like they are that sweet spot on the neck that always does the trick. How they WORK is much more important to me than how they LOOK.

If I'm looking at something.....is a little lower down and on the other side......

Alpine300zhp · 02-22-2021, 04:59 PM

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Originally Posted by cmyx6go

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Originally Posted by Alpine300zhp

Well. All I can say is Where have you been? It seems you haven't posted in 3 years.....

What's up Alpine? I'm assuming you're talking to Sara but I figured I'd say hi.

I see we have the same rides, I'm in a '19 X6M too. Trying to decide what's next. Lease is up in October. I hope all is well.

Now back to your regular scheduled programming

Hi 👋. I too love my 19 X6M and it has become one of my favorite BMW's ever. I have mine until May 2022, but have already started thinking about what is next. Next time I might leave the BMW fold.....thinking about a Urus. Hope all is well with you!

Lady Jane · 02-22-2021, 05:35 PM

On the subject of breast size, if it's more than a hand/mouthful, it's a waste. Unless you're into camping where you can sleep on one and cover yourself with the other.

dscabra · 02-22-2021, 05:49 PM

Not that this happily married man has any recent experience with dating, I have enough functioning brain cells in the head above my shoulders to recall that it's not the size of a woman's breasts, her weight, the color of her hair, etc. that I find attractive. It's the sparkle in her eyes, her smile, her laugh, and her ability to have fun that matter most. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

rebekahb · 02-22-2021, 06:04 PM

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Originally Posted by dinonz

Being fussy/picky at inappropriate times.

I have a friend staying because of the Texas Snowpocalypse, and she's as fussy as hell DURING a crisis. She knew when she came here (because of no water) that I had limited choice of food (chili or soup basically). "I don't feel like that - got any pizza?". No. "See if you can order one in". No. I managed to make some chili which wasn't bad, but the next day "I've had that recently - got any snacks?". No. "Chips?". No. "Garlic bread?". No. What part of "I have chili and soup" was difficult to understand, and in a crisis situation STOP BEING FUSSY!

I managed to get some Pillsbury pizza dough, and we made pizza - it wasn't bad. The next day I managed to buy some pizza from HEB too as backup. Now she only wants to eat the HEB one because the other dough is too sweet for her taste, so she thinks I should go shopping again to get more of that one despite having dough to make pizza in the fridge.

I just can't wait for her to go home.

If she doesn't like what you have to offer, then she can just leave. You were hospitable to allow her in your home to have water. She should be grateful and not a diva.

Sara · 02-22-2021, 06:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Lady Jane

On the subject of breast size, if it's more than a hand/mouthful, it's a waste. Unless you're into camping where you can sleep on one and cover yourself with the other.

Shaq's hand size right?

Sara · 02-22-2021, 07:00 PM

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Originally Posted by dscabra

Not that this happily married man has any recent experience with dating, I have enough functioning brain cells in the head above my shoulders to recall that it's not the size of a woman's breasts, her weight, the color of her hair, etc. that I find attractive. It's the sparkle in her eyes, her smile, he laugh, and her ability to have fun that matter most. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

Wait what.......

jk

RickFLM4 · 02-22-2021, 07:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Lady Jane

On the subject of breast size, if it's more than a hand/mouthful, it's a waste.

Urban myth.

dreamingat30fps · 02-22-2021, 07:07 PM

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Originally Posted by dinonz

Being fussy/picky at inappropriate times.

I have a friend staying because of the Texas Snowpocalypse, and she's as fussy as hell DURING a crisis. She knew when she came here (because of no water) that I had limited choice of food (chili or soup basically). "I don't feel like that - got any pizza?". No. "See if you can order one in". No. I managed to make some chili which wasn't bad, but the next day "I've had that recently - got any snacks?". No. "Chips?". No. "Garlic bread?". No. What part of "I have chili and soup" was difficult to understand, and in a crisis situation STOP BEING FUSSY!

I managed to get some Pillsbury pizza dough, and we made pizza - it wasn't bad. The next day I managed to buy some pizza from HEB too as backup. Now she only wants to eat the HEB one because the other dough is too sweet for her taste, so she thinks I should go shopping again to get more of that one despite having dough to make pizza in the fridge.

I just can't wait for her to go home.

LOL WTF! I'm assuming you're "friends" otherwise GTFO with that shit!

dscabra · 02-22-2021, 07:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Sara504

Wait what.......

jk

I know, I'll probably be asked to turn in my Man Card now.

Lady Jane · 02-22-2021, 07:17 PM

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Originally Posted by RickFLM4

Urban myth.

Perhaps. But you would be the first in line to de-bunk it. Right?

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