"Honestly when i read some of the posts it sounds like people are trying to convince themselves they didn't make the wrong choice." LOL I think this is the basis of 90% of the internet. Crowdsourced validation because most of our friends will just say "I dunno. Get what you like." Or "I dunno, I have a Camry. It seems nice".
This has been a terrific feedback thread for me (the OP) because it points out little things I might have not considered or real world pros/cons beyond the 'x' is faster argument. Thanks! Incidentally, I had pretty much decided on a loaded 228 vert but have been unable to find anything on a lot. Looking for mineral gray/coral red. So I am probably faced with a 235 now at a good price or a 230 in a few months (then I miss the summer months and pay almost the same). So, now I am leaning back towards a m235i if I can find the right deal.
Bozman